CONTROL

CONTROL

A Classic BDSM Play Party

Return to the dungeon. Revel in the tangible—the slap of leather on skin, the weight of chain, the bite of a well-placed strike—or sink into the intangible—the heady feeling of taking power or the euphoria of surrender, the pull of a look or compulsion of a command. CONTROL is for those interested in play emphasizing Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism in their many permutations. Whether you are a seasoned player or brand new and excited to explore, this party aims to facilitate your BDSM fantasies.

On the fourth floor, explore a sadomasochism focused space, with play stations set up for restraint as well as sensory and impact play from gentle to heavy. Scheduled throughout the night, our house tops will be available for those interested in exploring receiving impact, electro, and fire play. A bootblack station will be set up with service available at the discretion of the boot black. Please remember to tip your tops and bootblacks for their time and materials.

The third floor will retain its traditional play party set up, with open play spaces for any number of BDSM scenarios. Let your imagination run wild, and fuel a night of taboo pleasures that harken back to the underground heart of BDSM. Whatever your expression is, we have a space to explore it.

Dress the part. Whether you’re commanding in leathers and boots, in gleaming latex or alluring lace, or displayed cuffed and collared or entirely unadorned, express your fetish and your dynamics. CONTROL is a leather-forward night that honors the look, feel, and legacy of the scene—sharp, polished, and unapologetic. 

BDSM Demo Stations

• Impact with LadyFreyAnna & Daniel48

• Fire play with MrBald & TherapyDoll

• Electroplay with Truly

• Bootblacking (and other leathercare) with Semetaire

Please note, our entry door will be locked after 12AM (midnight) for the safety of our members and staff.

At Probe, inclusivity is at the heart of everything we do. We welcome all individuals of all sexual orientations, genders, and identities. Our aim is to create an environment where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to express themselves authentically. Our venue is wheelchair accessible, with an elevator available. Our goal is to provide an accessible, inclusive space. If you have any questions or have specific accommodation requests, please reach out to us.

A membership is required to attend our play parties. If you haven't secured your membership yet, be sure to do so before the event! You can sign up for your membership on our site here or can be purchased at the door.

New Members Policy: If you are a new member attending your first play party at Probe, you must arrive within the first two hours of the event. This helps us provide the right orientation and support for newcomers.

Tickets are available on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. We offer limited “supported” and “sustain” tickets at a lower price for community members who might otherwise be unable to attend. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. If you’d like to support event accessibility, consider purchasing a “generous” or “benevolent” ticket, which helps subsidize lower-price options. All ticket types provide the same access to the event.

A variety of snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be available all night to keep you refreshed and energized. Please note that bringing alcohol is not allowed.

Our dedicated Dungeon Monitors (DMs) will be present throughout the venue, attentively supervising the play areas and offering assistance to ensure everyone's safety.