Surrender Sanctuary

Surrender Sanctuary

Discuss and discover different headspaces within kink and BDSM, meet like minded folks, and get a chance to practice submissive headspaces or role-playing mindsets at Probe’s newest social and play party.

Surrender Social: This event starts with a two hour social that includes a discussion group and mingle period: come and hear from others in the community about headspaces and subspaces that one may encounter during play, and meet others who are interested in making connections that allow these headspaces to be explored.

With doors opening at 6:00 pm, discussions will start at 6:20pm and continue until 7:30 pm, when we will then transition into a short mingle before our play party.

Surrender to Play:

Atmosphere: Transition into sexy and elegant vibes with dim lighting and ample furniture to lounge and play on, with an added playfulness found in our music, decor, and activities for this evening.

AfterCare Spaces: With aftercare being an essential part of diving into head spaces and subspaces, find multiple aftercare options throughout the fourth floor, some communal and some individual. We will provide sign ups for the individual aftercare space(s), as well as open communal resources in group aftercare spaces, allowing members to choose which option works for them and their aftercare routine. All aftercare spaces will have cozy environments, fidget toys and sensory items, and other resources to share.

Service Station: Probe will provide a list of small tasks that those practicing servitude may choose to complete such as replenishing designated snacks, washing dishes, and other small acts of service. Alternatively, utilize our gold stars to reward yourself, or each other for a job well done.

Pet station: Find a collection of toys, treats, and mats at our dedicated pet station for this event: for pups, kittens, bunnies, and all other pets to enjoy, whether solo or with their handlers/partners!

At Probe, inclusivity is at the heart of everything we do. We welcome all individuals of all sexual orientations, genders, and identities. Our aim is to create an environment where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to express themselves authentically. Our venue is wheelchair accessible, with an elevator available. Our goal is to provide an accessible, inclusive space. If you have any questions or have specific accommodation requests, please reach out to us.

A membership is required to attend our play parties. If you haven't secured your membership yet, be sure to do so before the event! You can sign up for your membership on our site here or can be purchased at the door.

Please note, our entry door will be locked after 12AM (midnight) for the safety of our members and staff.

Tickets are available on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. We offer limited “supported” and “sustain” tickets at a lower price for community members who might otherwise be unable to attend. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. If you’d like to support event accessibility, consider purchasing a “generous” or “benevolent” ticket, which helps subsidize lower-price options. All ticket types provide the same access to the event.

A variety of snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be available all night to keep you refreshed and energized. Please note that bringing alcohol is not allowed.

Our dedicated Dungeon Monitors (DMs) will be present throughout the venue, attentively supervising the play areas and offering assistance to ensure everyone's safety.