Probe's Soft & Low Play Party

Soft & Low Play Party

Brought to you by Probe and the Soft & Low Crew!

Soft & Low is designed for those who crave the energy of a play party in a calmer, lower-stimulus environment. Whether you’re sensitive to sound or scent or simply prefer your evenings with a little less sensory intensity, this event offers a space to explore, connect, and play at your own pace. It is designed with those who have sensory processing disorders or chemical sensitivities in mind.

• Whisper-Only Space - we're using a library voices guideline to keep the volume low

• Designated Social Zone - for those moments when you want to chat without hushed tones, a clearly marked social area is available

• Dim Lighting & No Music - enjoy soft lighting and the absence of background music, allowing the natural ambiance of kink to shine through

• Sound of Scenes Welcome - this is not a silent play party—scenes can (and do) make sound. Being surrounded by authentic, unfiltered kink is part of the charm

• Ear Plugs Available - for those who prefer an even quieter experience, complimentary ear plugs are placed throughout the venue

• No-Scent Policy - please refrain from wearing perfumes, colognes, or scented products at any Probe event as we are a scent-free space

  
  

The night is entirely yours to shape. Play, observe, wander, connect, or simply settle into the soft hum of kink unfolding around you. This event is especially welcoming to newcomers who want to try their first party in a more grounded, less chaotic setting. Soft, low and stimulating in all the right ways. Come explore the quieter side of kink.

On Saturday evenings, there is often sound travel from the bar on the second floor. While steps will be taken to reduce this noise, it cannot be eliminated completely, so we will have ear plugs readily available for those who need them.

Please note, our entry door will be locked after 10PM for the safety of our members and staff.

We request that attendees refrain from using scented body and hair products such as perfumes, sprays, colognes, fragranced shampoos/conditioners, scented lotions, strong deodorants, hairsprays, etc. the day of or during the event. Those wearing fragranced products will kindly be offered the opportunity to shower or return at another time, thus ensuring a scent-free environment for all participants with sensitivities or allergies.

At Probe, inclusivity is at the heart of everything we do. We welcome all individuals of all sexual orientations, genders, and identities. Our aim is to create an environment where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to express themselves authentically. Our venue is wheelchair accessible, with an elevator available. Our goal is to provide an accessible, inclusive space. If you have any questions or have specific accommodation requests, please reach out to us.

A Probe membership is required to attend this event. If you haven't secured your membership yet, be sure to do so before the event! You can sign up for your membership on our site here or at Probe. Temporary 24 hour memberships are also available for $10 and can only be purchased at the door. 

New Members Policy: If you are a new member attending your first play party at Probe, you must arrive within the first two hours of the event. This helps us provide the right orientation and support for newcomers.

Tickets are available on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. We offer limited “supported” and “sustain” tickets at a lower price for community members who might otherwise be unable to attend. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. If you’d like to support event accessibility, consider purchasing a “generous” or “benevolent” ticket, which helps subsidize lower-price options. All ticket types provide the same access to the event.

A variety of snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be available all night to keep you refreshed and energized. Please note that bringing alcohol is not allowed.

Our dedicated Dungeon Monitors (DMs) will be present throughout the venue, attentively supervising the play areas and offering assistance to ensure everyone's safety.