Probe's FemDomme

Probe's FemDomme

The spotlight shines on powerful femmes for this night of celebration and play! Come bask in the unique glow of feminine dominance, as we uplift women and other femmes to the left of the power-exchange slash.

All are welcome to attend, but Probe’s FemDomme centers femme-identifying people who step into the mantle of control, honoring the bold, creative, and diverse ways dominance and femininity take form. As such, masc D-types and M-types are expected not to top for the duration of this event.

Attendees are encouraged to embrace femme power—whether by embodying it, elevating it through service or reverence or honoring it through presence and respect. People of all identities and expressions are invited to celebrate femme dominance in all of its unapologetic strength — its courageous past, its joyous present and its proud future.

Attendees

Probe’s FemDomme highlights power exchange and the people who practice it:

D-types and M-types at Probe’s FemDomme

• People who choose to hold power over others are called D-types or M-types (from the “D” in D/s and the “M” in M/s).

Includes: Femme Dominants, Dommes, Dominas, Ladies, Mistresses, Misses, Mxtresses, Goddesses, Queens, Femme Owners and Handlers, Femme Tops, Femme Sadists…

Female-identifying, femme-presenting, trans, nonbinary, and genderqueer D-types and M-types are invited and encouraged to inhabit the space as they wish, whether it’s play, worship, socialization or simple existence.

Masc-identifying D-types and M-types may attend to offer support or service, but are expected to refrain from topping people for this event.

s-types at Probe’s FemDomme

• The people who choose to give up power are called s-types (from the “s” in D/s or M/s).

Includes: submissives, slaves, bottoms, service bottoms, pets, property…

s-types of all genders are welcome and encouraged to engage in service, worship and/or observation depending on their personal comfort level. 

This Month's FemDomme

Probe Ottawa’s first FemDomme Night is a simple tribute to the FemDommes who paved the way for us today, honouring the many intoxicating shades of femme-led power. It’s a night for recognizing and celebrating dominant femmes of all stripes!

Hosts: @TherapyDoll and special guest host @Hail_Mary 🖤🖤🖤

Themes are always inspiration, not obligation. Femme dominance is welcome, whatever form it happens to take.

The Goddess Lounge

A sanctuary within the venue reserved exclusively for femme-identifying D-types or M-types, and their invited s-types.

• Atmosphere: Comfortable seating, low lighting, and decadent details designed to inspire conversation, connection, and indulgence. s-types will be provided floor tiles for proper presentation.

• Access: s-types may only enter if invited by a D-type or M-type, or if pre-assigned to service the event.

• Service: Dedicated attendants will provide drinks, refreshments, and comfort tasks throughout the evening. (If you are an s-type and wish to provide these services, please seek out @TherapyDoll)

• Behavior: Voices low, movements graceful, service discreet. The Lounge is a retreat for D-types and M-types to recharge, exchange ideas, and enjoy undisturbed luxury between scenes.

Protocol Expectations—within the Goddess Lounge Only

Everyone

• Use appropriate titles (Mistress, Ma’am, Mx., etc.) unless given a preferred alternative.

• When in doubt, ask permission before speaking, touching, or engaging with anyone else.

s-types only

• Be in a state of undress within the lounge as per customary Goddess Lounge guidelines.

• Be seated on the floor (drop mats provided for comfort)

• When addressing a D-type or M-type, stand or kneel according to your role. Avoid casual postures in conversation where possible.

D/M-types only

• Be respectful of those in service to the Goddess Lounge.

  
  

For more about protocol at Probe, see here.

Dress Code

Do Wear: Leather, latex, lingerie, sharp suits, corsets, boots, and elegant fetishwear are encouraged. Collars, cuffs, harnesses, minimal clothing (as much or as little as you are comfortable with), and/or theme-appropriate service attire.

Don’t Wear: Gym wear, blue denim, flip-flops, or visibly street-casual clothing.

Please note, our entry door will be locked after 11PM for the safety of our members and staff.

At Probe, inclusivity is at the heart of everything we do. We welcome all individuals of all sexual orientations, genders, and identities. Our aim is to create an environment where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to express themselves authentically. Our venue is wheelchair accessible, with an elevator available. Our goal is to provide an accessible, inclusive space. If you have any questions or have specific accommodation requests, please reach out to us.

A membership is required to attend our play parties. If you haven't secured your membership yet, be sure to do so before the event! You can sign up for your membership on our site here or can be purchased at the door.

New Members Policy: If you are a new member attending your first play party at Probe, you must arrive within the first two hours of the event. This helps us provide the right orientation and support for newcomers.

Tickets are available on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. We offer limited “supported” and “sustain” tickets at a lower price for community members who might otherwise be unable to attend. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. If you’d like to support event accessibility, consider purchasing a “generous” or “benevolent” ticket, which helps subsidize lower-price options. All ticket types provide the same access to the event.

A variety of snacks and non-alcoholic drinks will be available all night to keep you refreshed and energized. Please note that bringing alcohol is not allowed.

Our dedicated Dungeon Monitors (DMs) will be present throughout the venue, attentively supervising the play areas and offering assistance to ensure everyone's safety.