Learning Limits From The Inside Out

Learning Limits From The Inside Out

A new way to explore limits in BDSM through sensation, emotion, and self-trust

In BDSM, knowing your hard and soft limits isn’t just about safety. It’s the key to empowered, connected, and truly consensual play.

But most conversations about limits stay on the surface:

"Would you do this?"

"Are you into that?"

This workshop flips that script.

Instead of working from a checklist, we’ll guide you from the inside out, using body awareness, emotional cues, and inner sensations to identify what’s a true no, a maybe with conditions, or an enthusiastic yes.

You’ll learn a new method for uncovering and communicating your limits — one that puts your inner experience first, and gives you language, confidence, and clarity to bring into any scene or dynamic.

What You’ll Receive From This Workshop

• A clear understanding of hard limits (your non-negotiables) and soft limits (your cautious maybes)

• A powerful guided meditation and somatic activity to help you tune into your body’s signals and emotional responses.

• A deeper connection to your own internal boundaries — beyond what you've seen, heard, or read others say "should" be limits.

• A brave, shame-free space to ask questions, reflect, and get curious about your desires and boundaries.

  
  

Why This Matters

Before you can negotiate, explore, surrender, or receive power and authority, you need to know where your line is.

Whether you're brand new to kink or years into play, your limits are living things, and if you don’t know them, how can you expect someone else to respect them?

When you’re in touch with your emotions, sensations, and inner cues, you don’t just protect yourself, you open the door to deeper intimacy, stronger dynamics, and scenes that leave you feeling safe, seen, and satisfied.

This workshop is for anyone who wants to:

• Move beyond generic BDSM checklists

• Get clear on what feels right for them

• Show up to scenes and dynamics with confidence and clarity

This workshop is open to all, no membership required. Tickets are available on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event.

Doors will open 15 minutes before the start of the class.

JAMIE

As a Kink Educator & Coach, Jamie helps her clients navigate the desirable internal and external world of BDSM and Kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and Kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life.